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Aug 12, 20245 min read
Africana Woman Festival 2024
The Africana Woman Festival 2024 was magnificent. Thank you to everyone who attended and made it possible.
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Mar 12, 20244 min read
The Coolest Granny's Quick Tips: Do I have to tell people I have forgiven them?
By Makheni Zonneveld - Are we supposed to inform the people who have hurt us that we have forgiven?
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Nov 14, 20233 min read
The Cycle Of My Psyche
By Lily - Discover the captivating journey through 'The Cycle Of My Psyche'. Dive into the depths of emotions and self-reflection.
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Oct 3, 20233 min read
I Left Formal Employment For A Man
By Ngosa C Muyatwa - Be wary of regret, it is a shark that will eat you up if left untamed.
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Sep 15, 20233 min read
Felicia Joel, a Source of Inspiration
By Suzanne Latre - In a world often plagued by false modesty, Felicia stands tall in her self-worth.
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Sep 1, 20234 min read
I Hope My Daughters Remember
By Ngosa C.Muyatwa-I hope my daughters remember that we will all get old or die and when we do, it's important to have loved ones around you
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Aug 4, 20233 min read
My Marriage Is An Achievement!
By Tubalemye Kapisa - Marriage as an achievement is not rigid. You still need to work on the relationship and friendship individually.
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Jul 14, 20234 min read
All that matters
By Ngosa Chibuye Muyatwa -A miscarriage is one of life's hardest experiences. How does one go ahead to chase their dreams after such a loss?
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Jun 8, 20223 min read
Miracle of Healing
Trigger Warning. Reference to death & grief. I have always wondered whether the way we grieve culturally is healthy or toxic. Any thoughts?
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May 23, 20226 min read
Confrontation
I do not like confrontations. I avoid them like the plague and yet there is an art to it. A way of speaking to each other respectfully.
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Mar 12, 20226 min read
Sex & Friends
Sex. The topic that we are all told to keep hush and yet it affects everyone. I am not comfortable talking about it but someone needs this.
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Feb 15, 20227 min read
Sons Of Pharaoh
Happy Valentine's Queen. Single/Coupled you are all phenomenal. Manje some of us have sworn to spinsterhood because of the Sons of Pharaoh
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Sep 26, 20219 min read
Lunch WIth Friends
For the next few weeks the blog is going to take a different turn. I feel compelled to write a story. Please flow with me.
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Jul 2, 20214 min read
Hold Space For Each Other
How do we support each other in collective loss? By Holding Space for Each Other, first acknowledge our own pain then be present for others.
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Jun 25, 20216 min read
I Fired Him
How do you know when it’s time to let go of someone who was once an amazing employee? Here are 3 tips to help you make that decision.
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May 13, 20216 min read
Blast from the Past
On Monday morning around 4am I woke up in a cold sweat thinking about an old friend. His name is Ben. I had the thought, "He abandoned me."
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Apr 16, 20214 min read
Puzzles, Thunder Thighs & a Hike
Hey, how has your week been. Mine has been full but at the same time I am trying to be mindful to spend quality time with my son.
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Apr 2, 20217 min read
The White Dress with Yellow Flowers
Have you been through a trauma? How did you handle it? How did it affect the people closest to you? Read about my experience with trauma.
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Feb 25, 20217 min read
Introverts are Quiet, Boring & Loners. uh WRONG!
Being an introvert is both a blessing and curse. We are mostly misunderstood and often feel the most comfort in our own heads.
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Feb 4, 20217 min read
Would You Date A White Guy?
I cannot tell you the number of times I have been told that I should find a white man because I won’t manage a typical Zambian man.
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