Would You Date A White Guy?

Updated: May 16, 2021

Dear Africana Woman,

Hey Sis!!!! I have missed you. Bring it in, Big Hugs. So what happened was, (lol I sound like a gossip) at the end of December I was wrapping up the cake business. Then we decided to go spend a little time in Kabwe at our family home in what you would call the countryside, but more popularly known as KuMushi. It was divine. I spent the first week really meditating and figuring out what I wanted to become in 2021. The fruits were in full season from Mangoes, Oranges, Grapes, Guavas, Lemons. Like we ate so much fruit, I might as well be one right now. I hung out in the garden with my son. We would basically take the mpasa (reed mat) and mattress on the veranda. We would read books, make puzzles, chill and talk. We laughed a lot. I also started dancing again! (story for another day) I did a ton of other stuff but I think what was most important for me was being in the moment. Like really feeling the grass under my feet, the cool breeze blowing on my face, the light raindrops on my bare arms, watching my son’s face light up as he makes fresh fruit juice. There is no other way to explain it. It was just bliss. Now we are in February and it’s back to the other things I love to do, like talking to you.